Phrases

There are certain phrases I have picked up and/or developed over the years to help me explain myself or my thoughts and beliefs. It's quite difficult to explain my brain on the fly when a huge part of who I am is Neurodivergent. Aka, my brain don't work normal. Here's a few:

1. I might be the stupidest smart person you'll ever know. 

2. There are no absolutes. (This one adjusts makes me giggle a little bit.)

3. Intelligent design is a myth. Who puts an amusement park in the middle of a sewage plant?

4. I don't know. (Possibly one of the most underrated, underused, and stigmatized phrases in all of communication.)

5. I'll do my best but don't count on it. 

6. I'm consistently inconsistent. 

7. I don't get it. (Very useful when dealing with misogyny, racism, etc. Also good for when I don't get it.)

I know there are more, but these are the core of how I attempt to be successful at communicating. 

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